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Hello Dolls, Pamper yourself with me during my daily beauty routine. 15 minutes of pampering myself everyday leads to me feeling ready for the day, at peace and it also boosts my self-confidence. When I rush through my routine or skip my mini pampering sessions, it can cause me to feel scattered, unready, or unsuccessful with the start of my perfect mornings. Every lady should have a realistic daily beauty routine that works for her mornings. I hope my routine inspires you Dolls to set aside time for yours. Some mornings, I may take my time which can make my routine longer than 15 minutes. Yet, for the most part, I can get all of the main steps out of my routine completed at ease. Watch my full Daily Beauty & Pampering Routine. Today, I'm sharing some my favorite products and how I prefer to use them on an everyday basis. Start of my Beauty Routine, begins with Hair Care To avoid potential blemishes, I tend to start with hair care, then follow with skincare. This helps wash off any hair product residue that may tread on the sides of my forehead. My weekly haircare routine involves twist outs, detail work and hours for styling. Yet, my daily haircare routine focuses on maintaining my weekly style, providing my hair with moisture and the light attention that it needs. My Tried & True: Creme of Nature Strength & Shine Leave-In Conditioner with Argan Oil I started using this product about 5 years ago & I haven't found a daily moisture spray that truly softens my curls by itself, like this one. It doesn't cause build up and it soaks into my hair very nicely. It's a perfect on-the-go hair moisturizer, especially for low-porosity hair. Super Moisture Needs: Pattern by Tracee Ellis Ross Styling Cream Rich Moisture & Definition Every other day or so, I apply this thick cream to my ends and sometimes to my hairline for extra moisture and hydration. This styling cream is great at providing a good amount of definition to the curls. This styling cream is specifically made for curly girls with tighter curls. In Need of Definition: PATTERN by Tracee Ellis Ross Strong Hold Gel Sometimes I may need to touch up my weekly hairstyle. On those days, I usually scoop a small amount of the gel, spread it on both hands and rake it through each side of my hair. For more definition, I may fingercurl individual strands with the gel. This gel grips, holds and defines my curls oh so very nicely. Let's continue with... Skincare I go into skincare next, being sure to clean my face and around my hairline. I typically use black soap for my daily cleansing. I try to keep my skincare routine concise and filled with vital and necessary products. Simple, reliable and nourishing, that is what I look for when it comes to my everyday skincare routine. CHANEL Le Gommage Anti-Pollution Exfoliating gel This is one of my new found favorites from this year. This physical exfoliator is smoothening, gentle-to-the-touch, and micro-fine. Its perfect for those mornings, where you just want to have a quick cleanse and smooth out your skin. I lightly splash my face with water, then apply a dime-size amount into my hands. I gently apply the micro-beads on my face in circular motions. Chantecaille Rosewater Facial Spray For a quick bit of hydration, I am in awe by this pure rosewater. The glass bottle permanently sits pretty on my vanity. As I walk by during the day, I'm compelled to spritz my face with this beautiful rosewater. This mixture includes Rose de Mai, along with the petal's extract and it's essential oils. Dior Prestige La Creme Texture Essentielle Moisturizer Next I apply my, all time favorite, Dior Prestige La Creme Texture Essentielle. I only need dime-size amount, which I scoop out with the Dior spatula massager tool. With soft, sweeping motions, I apply the rose-infused creme. To enhance the relaxing experience, I use the Dior spatula massager tool to massage the contours of my face and around my eyes. This 2-minute application allows me to induldge myself in spa-like experience. Finishing off with... Makeup This is probably my favorite part of my beauty routine. In my Daily Beauty Pampering Routine video, I did my full face of everyday makeup using some of my favorite makeup products. This time I'll share my 5-makeup routine using more of my luxury makeup favorites. 1. I use my Merit The Minimalist Perfecting Complexion Foundation & Concealer Stick in shade Amber to spot conceal all over my face. This is so seamless and effortless to apply and blend. I have the option of applying powder with this cream stick 2-in-1 foundation & concealer. 2. I dot my Pat McGrath M18 concealer under my eyes and quickly blend with my fingers. One dot under each side will give me the coverage I need. 3. Next, I swirl on my Gucci powder all over my face for a natural and radiant finish. This powder is lightweight and it doesn't look like you're actually wearing powder. 4. Lastly for the complexion, I'll apply my Dior Rouge blush in Rose Montaigne 219 for a lightweight, shimmer blush look. This blush is just enough to show on my skin tone complexion which gives me a natural rosy finish. This blush also has a slight gold shift, which makes this the perfect blush and highlighter in one duo. 5. I glide my Gucci Rouge à Lèvres Voile Sheer Lipstick across the curves and center of my lips to finish of my look. My current favorite is the shade Mildred Rosewood. Et, Voila! With 15 minutes and intentionality, I'm able to pamper and primp myself every day. I focus on using reliable, quality beauty products that creates a beautiful, lasting result. I hope you enjoyed! If you try any of my favorite products, comment below & share your experience! kisses Bye, Dolls! *This post contains affliate links. Thank you for your support!

Hello Dolls, In my 2nd Holiday Housewife Diary Vlog, I set my Christmas tablescape and created my holiday floral arrangements. Here are my beloved holiday decorations and more options for your beautiful dining table. DECORATE WITH ME Shop Here: affliate links Garland Gold Charger Plates Placemats White Tablecloth Cloth Napkins

Hello Dolls, I’m a bit too addicted to this morning coffee recipe. This is a sweet way to wake up with a cup of coffee! A bit of hot chocolate in your coffee mix will have you feeling festive & cozy. This recipe is simple to make & if you use these ingredients, you’ll love it as much as I do. Your usual cup of coffee 2 tablespoons of your favorite hot chocolate 2 tablespoons of Irish Creme Creamer 2 teaspoons of sugar, optional or to your liking A swirl of whipped cream A sprinkle of cinnamon directions: Add 2 tablespoons of hot cocoa to your hot coffee Add in the Irish Creme creamer & sugar then mix together Swirl on Whipped Cream, be generous Sprinkle on cinnamon or your favorite toppings! Marshmallows, sprinkles, graham cracker crumbles, cinnamon sugar, etc. et Voila!

The holidays are not complete without a classic, creamy and rich red velvet cake. The cream cheese icing is the only respectable frosting for this family-favorite recipe. This is simple to make & easy to devour in one sitting! Watch my Recipe Video & Bake with Me! Let's Bake. CAKE 3 cups cake flour 2 Tablespoons unsweetened natural cocoa powder 1 teaspoon baking soda 1/2 teaspoon salt 2 cups granulated sugar 1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened 4 Large eggs, room temperature 1 cup vegetable oil (or canola) 1 Tablespoon pure vanilla extract 1 cup buttermilk, room temperature 1 teaspoon distilled white vinegar liquid red food coloring CREAM CHEESE FROSTING 16 oz cream cheese, softened 3/4 cup unsalted butter, softened 4 cups powdered sugar 1 1/2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract pinch of salt Preheat oven to 350°F. Whisk together the flour, cocoa powder, baking soda and salt together in a large bowl. In a separate large bowl, beat the butter and sugar together until combined. Add in eggs, vanilla extract, oil and vinegar together. Mix together until combined. Add the 1/3 dry ingredients into the the wet mix, then 1/3 of the buttermilk into the wet mix. Mix together. Continue adding 1/3 of the dry mix and buttermilk into the bowl until fully combined. Add in the red food coloring. Continue to mix batter until fully combined. Pour equal amount of batter into 2 cake pans. Bake in the oven for 30 minutes on 350°F Take out of oven, then allow cakes to completely cool before frosting. Insert a toothpick in the center of the cake, if the toothpick comes out clean, without moist batter, that's a sign the cake is ready! FROSTING In a large bowl, beat together the cream cheese and butter until smooth Add in the confectioners’ sugar, vanilla extract, and a pinch of salt. Mix until fully combined. The icing should be smooth, slightly thick and not runny. Trim and level the top and bottom of each cakes. You want it to be even & flat. Save the cake crumbles for decorations! Place 1 cake layer on the cake stand. Spread an even layer of frosting on the top side. Place the 2nd cake on top of the first cake. Apply an even and smooth layer of frosting on the top and sides. My Icing Decorating Tool: https://amzn.to/3oGfATV *affliate DECORATING: Crumble the leftover cake crumbles into smaller pieces. Gently place crumbles on the sides of the cake. You can fully cover sides or create an ombre design with the crumbles! I also placed more crumbles on the top side edges of the cake. Use a spoon to add cake crumbles to the top of the cake, the smaller, the better. Use an icing tool to decorate the top of the cake and... Voila! A beautiful homemade red velvet cake for you and your loved ones to enjoy. Share your pictures of your cake creation with me & the Dolls! Tag me in your photo @Ebony.Nikita, Post in the blog's Doll Community, or send it through the blog's messenger! What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? Comment Below & Let's Chat Dolls

This post contains affiliate links. Thank you for your support. Pretty Perfume Penhaligons is a British perfumery that has a strong hold on heritage, elegance and for us ladies, femininity. Their perfume is like a hidden secret to us here in the states. If you're a stickler for unique fragrances, then you should dive into this classic brand. For Dolls who Tea For the tea lovers & coffee drinkers. Who said you can't enjoy coffee or hot cocoa in a feminine little cup? Add a bit of feminine beauty to your winter beverage. As the daughter of an islander, tea is apart of my everyday activities. So having a casual round up of tea cups for everyday use is a must-have. Everyday Elegance If you've seen my Housewife Diary Vlogs, you'd know I have a deep love for robes. One on in the morning, one on at night, a robe is apart of my every day routine. This would be a darling addition to any lady's loungewear wardrobe. a Dollop of Dior. Dior's Prestige skincare line is my absolute favorite. Every product is formulated with real rose petals and it works with majority of skin types since it is appropriate for sensitive skin. It is truly a skincare luxury experience that any feminine lady would enjoy. The packaging is luxurious and feminine, all while the ingredients are top tier. Class in a Candle Black-owned luxury candles. This company is known for their Harlem Renaissance-inspired candles. The brand emulates New York elegance in America's time of class, swagger and grace. This is a beautiful statement piece for anyone's vanity, coffee table or dresser. Sleeping on Silk Go to sleep pretty, wake up pretty. Protecting your hair at night is one of the best ways to keep a consistent and healthy haircare routine. Lips Dressed in Dior Okay, okay, yes I love Dior, but for good reasoning. This lip scrub is a dry lip savior. It is winter and our lips are bound to suffer if we don't care for it. This makes for a perfect gift for the beauty-lover or for someone who isn't used to splurging on everyday luxuries. That is exactly what this product is, an everyday, luxury lip scrub balm that is worth every pretty penny. Chocolates. Need I say more? For chocolate lovers, this is a luxury that would be much appreciated. A bit of luxury for the tastebuds. Its packaged in the perfect pink packaging and it's such a delight to indulge in. What is on your wishlist? What is on your gifting list? Comment below & Let's Chat Dolls.

Hello Dolls, A special part of my birthday celebration, me and my husband enjoyed an afternoon tea time at Chateau Elan, located in Braselton, Georgia. This is about an hour away from Atlanta. From pre-gift shopping, to primping and dressing for the occasion, I shared my experience with you in my Birthday Housewife Diary Vlog. Be sure to watch my vlog if you'd like to be apart of my full experience at the Chateau Elan. I want to share futher details about my tea time at Chateau Elan Winery & Resort. Reservations required. Afternoon Tea lasts approximately 1 hour. 2pm-4pm availability $55 for afternoon tea $85 for afternoon tea with sparkling wine - The First Look - I was in instantly in awe by the vineyards lined and welcoming us as we entered Chateau Elan’s grounds. Every building is an architectural beauty. There is an overwhelming sense of peacefulness and leisure as you explore. The venue is spacious and there are signs to direct you to different amenities like the spa, onsite restaurants, villas & the hotel rooms. The afternoon tea is located in the Versailles restaurant. The waiters and waitresses are polished in their white shirts, dress pants and welcoming smiles. Our waitress was incredibly accommodating, which made the experience all the more enjoyable. - In the Restaurant - The lobby leading into the restaurant has a sense of cozy elegance. When you enter, you're able to overlook the vast restaurant space and it's a true Cinderella moment. You're able to cascade from the grand two-sided staircase to the restaurant below. Once you make it to the end of the staircase you'll meet the beautiful, centered, oval fountain. The restaurant has a glass-top atrium and its canopied by dangling chandelier lights. The tea area is sectioned in smaller areas which is perfect for groups. I imagine you could fit up to 10 people in one area, quite comfortably. Its spacious with L-shape sectional couches, four chic chairs and a large center table. There are multiple little cubicles of exclusive dining areas. The palm trees borders the area to provide privacy. - Tea Time - The Tea We enjoyed the afternoon tea with sparkling wine. Our waitress greeted us well. She handed us a menu filled with their varieties of tea blends. The gorgeous tea cart containing different tea blends and the tea set was rolled out. We ordered the black orchid tea and the jasmine silver needle tea, which happens to be popular choices. Black Orchid Tea: Black Tea with aromas of vanilla and spice. Jasmine Silver Needle Tea: Chinese White Tea with fragrant Jasmine. Both have a beautiful flavor. On birthday in October, some of the treats we enjoyed included, chocolate-covered strawberries and mini raspberry mousse cakes. . My husband was very impressed by the Jasmine Silver's aroma. Our tiered tray of treats was brought out to us along with it's beautiful white and gold- trimmed scalloped white tea cups and teapots. The sparkling wine was a great addition to the array. The three courses of treats were blended together on the tiered tray, differing from a traditional tea setting. The Treats & Savories Me and my husband had a lot of fun trying all of the different treats with our tea. We weren't able to finish it all because we were full by all of the delicious food. I've noticed, depending on the season or month you visit for tea, some of the food options may vary. On birthday in October, some of the treat we enjoyed included, chocolate-covered strawberries and mini raspberry mousse cakes. Our food selection also included smoked salmon wrapped cucumber rolls, updated deviled eggs sandwiches, cinnamon cream mini cakes, cucumber & radish on cream cheese pumpernickel bread, cranberry-filled filo bites, mint chocolate truffles and mini crab puffs. You'll be able to see all of the treats and savories in my Housewife Diary Birthday Vlog. - Final Thoughts - Ever so often, our waitress checked on us which allowed us to enjoy our private tea time. Overall, I'd highly recommend the Chateau Elan for your next afternoon tea time.The ambiance is splendid, the choices and quality of tea is exceptional. Perfect for an elegant birthday celebration, couple's afternoon tea time, mother-daughter date or any excuse to enjoy an hour long tea time. I hope you enjoyed, Dolls! What are some of your favorite places to enjoy tea? Do you have a favorite tea blend? Comment below! & Lets Chat Dolls.

Hello Dolls, For darling seasonal fashion inspiration, I shared my Feminine Winter Lookbook on my YouTube Channel. Here are pieces from my lookbook! The Classic The Beret The Black & White An instant charming look. The beret continues to make a statement. Choosing B&W colors will help any lady achieve a classic look. A simple, yet bold look that emulates timeless feminine elegance. A swipe of red lipstick is the perfect accessory when it comes to this ensemble. My favorite red lipstick is by Dior. Wear this ensemble with pantyhose or footed tights with thigh high boots. A Stylish Winter The Dramatic Wrap Front A bold piece that keeps a feminine touch by the dramatic puff sleeves and wrap front tie-waist. A Wardrobe Classic A tweed skirt is a staple, necessity and must-have in every lady's wardrobe. Going for prints is the perfect way to add more interest into your ensemble. My skirt in this lookbook is by Karl Lagerfeld, but unfortunately it is sold out. Yet, I found these equally gorgeous skirts that makes for a pleasing alternative. These have been on my wishlist for a while now :) The Fox This is my most favorite outwear piece for this season. This piece has an effortless elegance to it. My coat is from Sofia Cashmere. This brand holds other great cashmere pieces. This is a wool and cashmere blend coat with a fox fur collar. Giving the Boot Boots are an undebatable staple in every lady's winter wardrobe. Taller boots like these thigh-highs allow you to wear shorter skirts and dresses, while still keeping warm in the winter season. A Casual Day Out This is my go-to ensemble for running errands & going shopping. Its comfortable, looks feminine and easy to throw on. A Charming Casual Mock-neck silhouettes allows for a more elegant look without the restrictions of a turtleneck. This piece from Express is double-lined. It is comfortable and very soft to the touch. I will say, Express has a habit of creating smaller neck holes for their tops. After a couple of wears, it becomes easier to put on. Choose feminine colors for your everyday wardrobe. Elegant Layers Going for a monochromatic look always makes a statement. My blush pink trench coat with the matching blush pink mock neck top, is an easy way to look instantly chic. For cozier days I prefer a comfy, knit cardigan. My Ralph Lauren crest cardigan, I showed in the lookbook is sold out, but this soft blazer gives a similar polished look. The Very Important Staple I cannot make it through winter without my maxi-length sweater skirt. I don't wear pants at all, so I heavily rely on tall boots, thicker knit skirts and dresses to keep my legs warm. I have two of these knit skirts. One is from Express and the other one is from Max Studio, which I purchased from Nordstrom. This is another similar style. A Feminine Touch A classic bow in the hair is one of the easiest way to add a feminine touch to any ensemble. I have ribbons in multiple shades and I love it. It takes about 5 seconds to add to your look. It makes a classic and feminine statement. *Some of these links may be affiliated, which supports my content. Thank you for your support! What is your favorite Ensemble I shared with you? Comment Below! & Let's Chat Dolls

Hello Dolls, If you're on your femininity journey, it's important to embrace your femininity every day. Not only when you're dolling yourself up for a special outing, but also when you're getting ready for everyday activities. These are some of my favorite ways to appear more feminine without the hour-long primping routine. Be sure to watch my latest upload, "EASY WAYS to LOOK FEMININE! 🎀 My Tips & Tricks" for more on this topic! Here's my practices & habits to exude femininity every day Let's Begin... 1. I focus on complimenting one of my facial features (even on my no-makeup days) It doesn't take much. I know we all love the full face of makeup routine or even the 5-minute face, but this minimal approach is still enjoyable and it gets the pretty job DONE. A quick swipe of a tinted lip balm, or a little bit of blush can really make a BIG difference. Makeup is already a tool to compliment your facial features, so use to to SHOWCASE at least one. Makeup has the ability to help you look a bit more polished and put together. This leads you into a more feminine look. These are some of my favorite everyday makeup products to give me that feminine boost! 2. I practice My Feminine Walk Every Day No matter where you go, you'll appear more feminine by praticing your feminine walk. This walk emulates femininity with every step. It's graceful, confident & eye-catching. Walk with poise and elegance in mind. A nice way to think of it is to walk as if you're walking next to Audrey Hepburn. Walk as if you're entering a ball. Be intentional with your feminine walk and eventually it will become effortless. Walking in heels, whether low or high, is great way to begin to learn how to walk like a lady. 3. I follow the tale, 'Earrings make you look 10x prettier' Whether its a myth or not, earrings help you achieve a feminine and polished look. It is the accessory that I never leave my house without wearing. I wear them every day and my ensemble is incomplete without them. Its the perfect facial accessory that frames your feminine facial feautures. I highly recommend a simple pair of pearls or diamond studs as an everyday pair. Darling Pairs 4. I smile. This one is an underrated practice. Smiling instantly brightens your face. It results in a feminine, kind, guanine and friendly look. This is important since these are all FEMININE TRAITS. Do you an active membership in the RBF club? How often do you smile? Are you a natural smiler? NOT SMILING is the easiest way to hinder your feminine appearance. It's easy to do and it's free. Avoid doing the world injustice by being stingy with your smile. These are my everyday, EFFORTLESS feminine habits to appear MORE Feminine. What are yours? What tip will you start today? Comment Below! Let's Chat, Dolls. *this post contains affliate links which goes back into supporting my content. Thank you for your support!

Hello Dolls, Recently, in a video I shared, "What's in My Bag + Feminine Purse Essentials" featuring the Tory Burch Fleming Convertible Shoulder Purse. I've been carrying around this handbag for years now. This is my go-to purse. I wear this when I'm going shopping, going out for brunch or going to the grocery store. This style is one of Tory Burch's best-sellers and for good reason. It's a feminine, chic and structured bag that is bound to fit in well with any lady's wardrobe. It comes in multiple colors, like black, gray, cream, red, yellow, and the list goes on and on. In the past, the purse has came in seasonal colors like navy, blush pink, white and floral. Today I'll be sharing my full HONEST review on this gorgeous bag along with a pros & cons list. WHERE TO BUY? *affliate links * Saks Fifth Avenue * Nordstrom * Nordstrom (CALFSKIN) ToryBurch.com COST: $528 FEATURES: Leather 1 exterior pocket; 2 interior slit pockets, 1 zipper pocket SIZE: 7.2" height; 10.8" length; 3.3" depth THE GOOD & THE BAD Let's Begin with My Favorites... THE PROS Convertible strap I love the fact that I can wear this purse as a shoulder bag or a crossbody. This makes this bag very versatile for various occasions. When I'm moving around, like putting groceries in my car, I simple adjust the strap into it's long form and wear it as a crossbody. Its a simple feature, but its most practical and very convienant. For those more dressy formal occasions, I wear this purse as a shoulder bag. Spacious Interior If you watched my video, you'd see this purse holds A LOT! I can fit my planner, makeup pouch, AirPods, long wallet, TWO I-phones in there and then some. I can also add in my kindle tablet too! You can hold your everyday essentials without feeling like you have to compromise. This is a medium-size purse, a bit on the smaller medium side, and its travel-friendly and everyday life-friendly. Suitable for Multiple Occasions This is truly the perfect size and perfect style. Wear this on a casual lunch date or on a romantic date night out. Wear this in the office or to the grocery store. The strap makes this purse so versatile and the size allows it to be very practical. This purse's style is feminine, chic and a style booster to any lady's wardrobe. It's a no-brainer choice for me when I'm picking out an outfit for an event or running errands for the day. Large Back Pocket This large back pocket might as well be the best thing since sliced bread. Its FUNCTIONAL and still visually appealing. This pocket runs deep and often times, it eats my spare change and face masks. I can fit both of my I-phone XR and my I-phone 8 in this pocket. It's very useful for storing phones, AirPods, lip balms, or other purse necessities that you take in and out throughout the day. Oh, if only every purse could have a back pocket like this one. Let's Chat About The Downsides... THE CONS Tricky to Close As much as I LOVE the space and functionality of this purse, the one thing it lacks is an easy-to-use closing. Its not every time, be every OTHER time, I have to close this purse, it gives my problems :( It has a magnetic closure, which is great, but it you don't get the positioning just right, then it will not close properly. Often times, I have to stop what I'm doing and concentrate on closing my purse properly. This can be quiet frustrating especially since I like my everyday purses to be low-maintaince and convienant. Its easy to open, but it can be tricky to close as times. I will mention that my purse isn't the latest edition of the Fleming bag. Tory Burch released a newer version of this purse in 2020. I haven't taken a good look at the newer versions in person, but I really hope the closure has been improved since this bag is truly a favorite. (I will update you once I get a chance to view it in person!) Scratches This bag does take a beating in scratches. Whether its from your keys or fingernails, it will get small, micro or big scratches. Luckily, in certain light, the scratches doesn't not show. In my thumbnail, my picture is unedited so you'll be able to see the scratches on it. They are NOT VERY NOTICEABLE in real life. I have long nails, so the back pocket has definitely taken a beating from me frequently reaching in and out of it. I do plan on getting a leather conditioner to give my darling purse a face lift. Weight Issues This is much less of a con. With ANY PURSE, if you OVERSTUFF it, it will reach it's weight limit before it begins to deform or have carrying issues. Again, this purse fits A LOT. When I (naughtily) OVERSTUFF my purse, I cannot wear it as a crossbody because the chain isn't strong enough to carry the extra weight and the middle of the purse will begin to crease. Yet, I can STILL overstuff my purse and carry it as a shoulder bag due to the double chains it has in this style of carrying. Again, I'm sure I could carry a shitzu in my purse before it gives out. OVERALL THOUGHTS I love this purse. Simple as that. It has a lot of more pros than cons. Its a versatile purse that you can wear on multiple occasions. Its functional, stylish and fits all of your necessities and then some. The biggest con to me is the tricky closure, but it doesn't deter me from using this bag every day. It isn't too big of a deal for me since it only gives me trouble ever so often, but I do hope the newer versions has an easier closure. This purse is DOLL APPROVED! If you're looking for a stylish, feminine, chic purse suitable for your casual and dressy days in life, then I would highly recommend this one. What are your thoughts on my "Whats in My Bag" video? Are you in love with this Tory Burch Purse? Have any questions for me? Comment below! & Let's Chat, Doll.

Hello Dolls, In my latest video, I share with you some of the lessons that I learned in my 1st year of being a newlywed. These are lessons, turned into tips for you if you are in your 1st year, engaged or a newlywed. From trials & errors, I know we can learn from each other and ultimately rely on God for guidance. I have a bonus tip for you, but be sure to get the first 4 tips is in my video, "The BIGGEST Lessons I Learned My 1st Year of Marriage". What I learned My 1st Year of Marriage Tip #5. You have to work on yourself. In order to continue a healthy marriage with your husband, you have to better yourself. This may mean you have to work on your insecurities, past traumas, your spiritual struggles, self-control, past hurtful situations, your ability to forgive, your temper, the list goes on. The reason why I married at 21 is because I knew who I was in Christ. That means something, I'm still growing into adulthood, maybe I'll find myself' later on in life, but I know who I am in Christ. I knew who I'm called to me to my family, friends and strangers. I knew what scripture says about sin and I had an understanding of the effects of it in my life and others. Through Him, I had a solid level of self-awareness. So as a married Christian woman, I realized that my personal struggles had an effect on my marriage. My past negative experiences, that I had not yet dealt with emotionally, had an effect on my choices and actions I made in my marriage. My personal insecurities, that I had yet to pinpoint and acknowledge, crept itself out and showed itself in my marriage. When you choose to ignore your inner struggles, it will make an appearance in some way, shape or form in your marriage. It may affect your marriage by impacting your actions, choice of words or decisions. It could also put your relationship in an unhealthy state. Go through those unspeakable times or events that has impacted you in some way. Be self-aware about your mistakes or poor choices you have made. Talk to someone about it. Your husband isn't in charge of handling all of your internal problems, so try not to put too much pressure on him. I find it comforting to talk to my husband about some issues and speak to my mom about some others. Joining a Life group, going to counseling or therapy, maybe better suited for you, so be open and find something that works. That is what it means to 'Work on Yourself'. By working on yourself and improving yourself, you'll be able to communicate and interact in a better way with your husband, especially in hard times. I've personally recognized a change in the way I react to things and how I choose to make decisions and submit to my husband. Dolls, be sure to get the other tips in my video! I know they will be a great help and reminder to us all. What did you learn in your 1st year of marriage? Whats a great lesson that you've learned in all of your years of marriage? Comment Below & Let's Chat Dolls!

Hello Dolls, It is time to cross our 't's and dot our 'i's when it comes to having a complete and cohesive feminine wardrobe for the cooler seasons! These are my TOP 10 necessities in my fall & winter closet that every feminine lady should have. In my latest fashion video, I shared feminine fashion inspiration in my fall lookbook featured in my video, "How to dress Feminine in the Fall & Winter". I shared my best tips on looking feminine & elegant although we're dealing with chilly and cold weather! I also shared the BEST FEMININE TRENDS for Fall & Winter 2021. The Top 10 - The feminine sweater - As I mentioned in "How to dress Feminine in the Fall & Winter", it's so easy to achieve that chunky, lego block look in the fall and winter season due to all of the layers. Its best to fill your closet the perfect feminine style sweater to keep your feminine shape accentuated. Look for sweaters in feminine styles like peplum, puff sleeve and the ones with sweetheart necklines. - The trench coat - A trench coat is an absolute ESSENTIAL in every lady's closet. Its my go-to coat when I need to hurry out the door. It helps you achieve a polished look without much effort. Always go for a classic color, like khaki tan or black. Yet, it's also fun to include accent colors like dusty rose to add a feminine touch to any of your outfits that you wear with it. - The sweater dress - Keep the feminine silhouette while staying warm. You can go for a knee-length sweater dress and you also have the options of a midi or maxi-length sweater dress. Pair with a tights or pantyhose to keep warm on the colder days! - The blazer - Elegant and chic in all seasons. The blazer is another go-to that emulates a sartorial elegance. Depending on your needs, you can choose a lightweight blazer to throw over a thick sweater, a blazer in a sweater fabric (basically a structured cardigan, wink wink) or you can go for the classic blazer. Each design delivers the same sophisticated look. - The fleece tights - This would be in my Winter Wardrobe SURVIVAL Kit. Fleece tights or leggings is my secret key to staying WARM in the winter season while wearing a cute skirt. You can also go for long johns too. I'd say double/triple your stock of fleece-lined tights! I have fleece-lined socks, leggings and tights for 7-days a week. - The scarf - This is a given, but lets make sure we have a fashionable scarf to bring the ensemble together. I have chic and feminine silk scarves for the fall and hefty, stylish scarf for the cold winter. - The holiday dress - This is a MUST in every lady's wardrobe. Thanksgiving, Christmas, holiday parties and everything in between, they all somehow require a new holiday dress that you just don't have. Go for a basic and cute holiday dress that you can accessorize for multiple seasonal occasions. By styling and accessorizing each time, you'll be able to get a great cost-per-wear AND you'll be just fine in every picture. - The dressy boot - Thigh-high, bootie, knee-high, or mid-calf, all are welcome. Have one pair of COMFORTABLE and STYLISH boot that you can wear with majority of your pre-planned seasonal looks. Slip-ons are great, but you want to be able to rightfully use the sidewalk as a runway in your dressy boots. - The casual boot - Yes, yes, we all love a good boot, but lets not get stuck in the 7 dwarves boots for every time you leave your home. You need a dressy boot, but also a STYLISH CASUAL BOOT that is comfortable. Easy-on and easy-off is one of the functional needs. I stick to 1"-3" height in my casual boots. - The peacoat - The ultimate winter outerwear CLASSIC. Need I say more? Keep warm and stay chic. - Feminine Color Stories for Your Fall & Winter Wardrobe - Choose a color story to inspiration your wardrobe. Go for pieces that coordinates with your chosen color scheme. This is an easy way to build a cohesive & feminine wardrobe! Dolls, do you have ALL 10 of these feminine wardrobe essentials? Which ones are you missing in your wardrobe? Where are your favorite places to shop? Comment Below! Let's Chat, Dolls. *Some items contains affiliate links. Thank you for your support!

Bonus Weekly Feminine Habit... Feminine Hobby Having a feminine hobby that you dedicate at least one day out of the week to, is such great way to flourish within your femininity. I love making all life's distractions disappear by focusing on my hobby. Some of my favorite feminine hobbies, which you can see in my Housewife Diary Vlogs, are baking, sewing, creating floral arrangements and shopping...if shopping counts ;-) Dedicate at least one hour out of your week to focus on your feminine hobby. Put down your phone, social media has disappeared for a couple of hours and be at peace with your feminine hobby. Easy Feminine Hobbies to Start Cooking & Baking Sewing Floral Arrangements Gardening Painting Bonus Weekly Feminine Habit... Beauty Therapy At least once a week, I dedicate a bit of my time to playing in my makeup. This gives me a sense of relaxation, calmness and creativity. I play a makeup video on my phone, take out my makeup and have fun applying it! You don't have to have an excuse to put on makeup. It doesn't mean you have to create a crazy, complex eye look. Simply trying out new methods or sticking to your reliable everyday makeup look can make all the difference. This is a time, where I put on makeup for me, to have fun, to pretty myself up just because. I admire my natural beautiful, feminine features a woman and choose to compliment them. Admire your beauty as a feminine lady. Choose your signature makeup look. relax. I also like ending my makeup session by spritzing my favorite perfume and putting on a pair of pearls. It's those little details that allows me to feel all dolled up. Products I use for My Weekly Feminine Habits that I love: *Some of the links are affiliated & I will receive a small commission if you choose to shop through them. This goes back into supporting my content. Thank you for your support! What are some of your feminine weekly habits? Comment Below & Let's Chat Dolls! Always with Love, Ebony Nikita Okeke